Ukukhathazeka okusabalele phakathi kwabazali ukuthi kunomehluko omkhulu weminyaka phakathi kwezingane zabo, ikakhulukazi phakathi kwengane yokuqala neyokugcina, noma "izingane zezincwadi." Izingane ze-bookend zibhekisela kumntwana wokuqala nowokugcina emndenini owamukelwa nhlangothi zombili zezingane zakubo ezivamile. Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi kakade usunabantwana abanesikhala esikhulu noma ngokushesha unezela enye ingane emkhayeni wakho, kungase kukudumaze ukucabanga ngezindlela igebe lobudala elingase libe nethonya elibi ngazo ezinganeni zakho: Ingane yakho endala ingase ekugcineni ibe nomona ngengane. Njengoba umntwana osanda kuzalwa edonsa ukunakwa okukhulu, uzodinga ukuqondisa izingane ngezigaba ezihlukahlukene zokuphila, futhi ungase ukhathazeke ngokuthi zizobe ziqhelelene kakhulu ukuze zenze ukuxhumana, ukubiza ezimbalwa. Kodwa mhlawumbe, mhlawumbe nje, akufanele ube futhi ukhathazekile ngokuphulwa, njengoba kufakazelwa izithombe ezinhle zabafowethu nodadewethu abadlulayo.
Qhubeka nokuskrola ukuze ubone izibopho ezimnandi phakathi kwalezi zingane ezimbili—eyokuqala neyokugcina ukuze ungavumeli umehluko wabo weminyaka ukuthi uphazamise indlela yokukhothamana.
