Ayikho imfihlo yokuphila impilo ejabulisayo, kodwa kunezindlela ezahlukene zokufika lapho. Impilo imfushane kakhulu ukuthi ungazisole. Into yokuqala okudingeka uyenze ukubona yonke into ekubambezelayo. Nazi izinto ezinhlanu okungafanele uzinike ukulawula.
1. Ukwesaba
Ukwesaba kuyinto enamandla ngendlela emangalisayo, lapho kubi kakhulu. Lokhu kungakukhubaza ekuphishekeleni izifiso nezinhloso zakho nasekufinyeleleni amandla akho aphelele. Kodwa esikhundleni sokuvumela ukuthi kungenzeka ukwehluleka kukuvimbele ekubeni uphishekele okufunayo, cabanga ngendlela yokuzisola. Ngokwesibonelo, indoda okuthiwa uJeff Bezos yazibuza ukuthi kufanele yini isishiye isikhundla sayo enkampanini yokutshala imali ukuze idale lokho okwakuzoba i-Amazon.com. Lapho esebonile ukuthi wayengeke azisole ngokuthi akazange azame ngaphezu kokuzisola ngokwehluleka kwakhe, wabona ukuthi isinqumo sasilula. Yebo, awukwazi ukuphumelela, kodwa kuthiwani uma uphumelela? Ngeke wazi uma uvumela ukwesaba ukuthi kukuthathele isinqumo.
2. Lokho abanye abakucabangayo
Ngisho nomuntu ozethembayo uba nezikhathi lapho ekhathazeka ngokuthi abanye bangase bacabangeni. Ukungavikeleki kumane kuyimvelo yomuntu. Sihlala sizama ukujabulisa abanye futhi sisekela ukukhetha kwethu emibonweni yangaphandle, kodwa ngenxa yalokho silahlekelwa ubuqiniso. Kungani kufanele sinake indlela abanye abasibheka ngayo inqobo nje uma ingalimazi muntu futhi isenza sijabule? Uma uyeka ukukhathazeka ngalokho abantu abakucabangayo, uzozizwa uncipha ingcindezi evela kwabanye futhi waneliseke kakhulu ngawe. Akuwona umsebenzi olula ukukhipha abanye abantu, kodwa kuyakhulula. Abanye abaholi abaphumelele kakhulu abafikanga lapho bekhona ngoba belandela imithetho.
3. imizwa engemihle.
Intukuthelo, umona kanye nenzondo akukaze kwenze muntu. Le mizwa engemihle ingakudla futhi ifiphaze imibono. Uzogcina wenze izinto ngokunganaki, wenze izinqumo ezimbi, noma uziyekise ukuphila impilo yakho engcono kakhulu. Ngaso sonke isikhathi lapho uvumela umuzwa onobuthi ulawule, ususa noma yimaphi amathuba enjabulo. Akunempilo futhi ukuba sesimweni esinjalo sokungabi nandaba. Funda ukulawula imizwa yakho esikhundleni sokuyivumela ikuthathe.
4. imali.
Yebo, imali ibalulekile empilweni yansuku zonke, kodwa imali ayilawuli (noma akufanele) ilawule yonke into ekuzungezile. Awusoze waneliseka uma uphila impilo yakho ngokuphishekela imali. Okuncane kungaba ukhiye obalulekile wokuzizwa wanelisekile futhi ujabule. Njengoba izinto zikanokusho nezinto zokwakha ziwubukhazikhazi, indlela yokuphila yobuncane iguqule labo abayamukelayo. Abangane ababili abangcono kakhulu, u-Joshua Fields Millburn kanye no-Ryan Nicodemus, balahle ama-gigs abo akhokha kakhulu ukuze baphile ukuphila okulula okusekelwe esidingweni nakweqile. Baqonda ukuthi imali ayithengi injabulo futhi bafunda ukuphila "ngamabomu ngokuncane."
5. Noma ubani ngaphandle kwakho.
Ngamagama alula, yimpilo yakho futhi akekho omunye okufanele azikhathaze ngayo. Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi umndeni wakho ulindeleni kuwe noma umphakathi uthini, ekugcineni, uwena wedwa okufanele uphile nalezi zinqumo.
