Mwana wanga asanaganize, ndinaganiza kuti akatenga mimba, adzapeza kuti mwanayo ndi mkazi. Duh: ino ndi zaka za zana la XNUMX. Sitifunikanso kukhala modikirira ndikumadabwa. Komanso, mungakonzekere bwanji nazale ndi kaundula kapena kusankha dzina? Ndinadabwa nditatenga mimba, maganizo oti ndikuyembekezera mnyamata kapena mtsikana ankandipanikiza kwambiri, choncho ndinaganiza kuti ndisadziwe amene anali panjira kwa miyezi isanu ndi inayi.
Lingalirolo lidayambitsidwa koyamba pomwe mnzanga adawulula kuti sanapezepo kugonana kwa mwana wake aliyense. Sindinkayembekezera kuti anthu apitirizabe kukhala moyo wotere m’zaka za m’ma 2010. Zambirizi sizinabisike mpaka nkhani ya mimba yanga inabweretsa banja langa pamodzi. kuchokera ku lingaliro ili kuti adzabala mwana woyamba m'banjamo. Tinali kale ndi atsikana ang’onoang’ono aŵiri kumbali ya mwamuna wanga m’banjamo ndipo kunyumba imene ndinakuliramo kunkalamuliridwa ndi akazi. Kumbali zonse ziŵiri za banjalo, kukambitsirana kunatembenukira kwa kamnyamata kameneka panjira, ndipo lingaliro losatheka la chitsenderezo linayamba kukula pa mapewa anga.
Bwanji ngati dokotala atatiuza kuti tidzakhala ndi mwana wamkazi? Kodi mwamuna wanga angakhumudwe? Kodi ena onse m’banjamo sangakhale osangalala? mtsikana winanso? Mwina anali mahomoni openga awa omwe adalimbikitsa malingalirowa, komabe, sindinkafuna kuti pakhale kukhumudwa pang'ono pamimba kapena kubadwa kwanga. , ndipo panalibe njira imene aliyense akanakhumudwitsidwa pamene khandalo linali pano, kapena mtsikana. Tinadalitsidwa kubereka mwana wachimwemwe, wathanzi, ndipo zimenezo zinali zofunika kwa ine. Chifukwa chake ndinaganiza kuti zisakhale zowopsa kupyola miyezi isanu ndi inayi osadziwa jenda. Chimenenso sindimadziwa chinali chakuti chisankhochi chidzandibweretsera mtendere wosayembekezeka, monga Munthu wa mtundu A wokhala ndi moyo malinga ndi dongosolo langa.
Kwa miyezi ingapo, anzanga ankandifunsa mafunso ambirimbiri. "Kodi simukufuna kudziwa?" Sizikukupangitsani misala osadziwa? Kodi mungakonzekere bwanji mwana uyu ngati simukudziwa ngati ndi mnyamata kapena mtsikana? Mosiyana ndi zimene anthu ambiri amakhulupirira, kukonzekera mwana amene simukudziwa kuti ndi mwamuna kapena mkazi n'kosavuta. Ine ndi mwamuna wanga timagwirizana pa mndandanda wa mayina a anyamata ndi atsikana. Mndandanda wa mayina a anyamata poyamba unali wautali kwambiri, koma tinauchepetsa mpaka atatu. Pankhani ya mayina a atsikana, panali imodzi yokha yomwe tinkagwirizana. Pa nthawi yonse ya mimba yanga, timayitcha kuti "Littlebit" mwachikondi. Ngakhale sitikudziwa ngati tikuyembekezera Littlebit Baby Girl kapena Littlebit Baby Boy, tinkalankhula ndi Littlebit tsiku lililonse, kugwirizana komanso kulimbikitsa chisangalalo kwa aliyense amene adayamba.
Tikukonzekera kusintha chipinda chathu cha alendo kukhala chipinda cha Littlebit. Chipinda chathu cha alendo chidapakidwa utoto wonyezimira wa lalanje (khalani nane pano) chomwe chinali maziko abwino kwambiri ankhani yathu yosagwirizana ndi jenda m'nkhalango. Panalibe kufunika kwa pinki kapena buluu; m’malo mwake, tinasinthira ku zobiriŵira, zachikasu, zoyera, ndi zotuwa kuti tigogomeze mbidzi, giraffe, mikango, ndi anyani. Zingakhale zabwino kwa aliyense amene anafika pa tsiku lobadwa.
Kukhazikitsa kulembetsa kwathu kunali kosavuta - tidayang'ana zinthu zamitundu yosalowerera kapena zinthu zomwe zimagwirizana ndi mutu wathu wa jungle safari. Banja lathu linaponya mwana wasukulu wosambira modabwitsa pabwalo. Zinali zomasuka, zosangalatsa, komanso zimayang'ana kwambiri kukondwerera Littlebit yathu. Tinali ma jumpsuits osagonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha, nyama zodzaza ndi zoseweretsa zamtundu wa nkhalango zomwe zimafanana ndi chipinda cha Littlebit, matawulo ambiri, mapepala, ndi makadi amphatso achikasu, obiriwira, ndi oyera. Tinadzazidwa ndi chikondi ndi mphatso, ndipo tsiku lonselo lidapangitsa chisangalalo chochulukirapo komanso kukaikira pamene tsiku langa loyenera linkayandikira.
Inali cha m’ma 10:30 am pamene madzi anasweka ndipo kuŵerengera kukakumana ndi Littlebit kunayamba. Pambuyo pa ntchito yofulumira kwambiri komanso yobereka, Littlebit analipo. Pamene dokotala ndi anamwino anathamangira kuyeretsa, kusoka, ndi kudzuka kuti atuluke m’chipindacho, ine ndi mwamuna wanga tinakumana ndi zinthu zosayembekezereka zosintha moyo. Tsopano tinali makolo a mtsikana! Nthawi ija atabadwa tinadabwa kuti ali kuno koma poyang'ana m'mbuyo anayenera kudziwa kuti aliyense amene angachedwe kwa masiku atatu kenako n'kungotenga maola 4 ndi mphindi 44 kuti afike adzakhala mtsikana, adatsimikiza mtima kutero. pangani moyo! Ndisanayembekezere kukhala mayi, nthawi zonse ndinkadziona ngati "mayi wamwana," koma mpaka lero, sindinathe kuona moyo wanga ndi wina aliyense kupatulapo Lucy Littlebit wanga.
Kwa aliyense amene akuganiza zodikira kuti adziwe za kugonana, ndikungonena kuti achite! Palibenso zodabwitsa zambiri m'moyo, ndipo ichi ndi chamtengo wapatali. Mimba, mwaulemerero ndi kusapeza bwino, imawulukadi, kotero musanadziwe, mumadziwa ngati muli ndi mwana wamwamuna kapena wamkazi. Anthu amakonda kuganiza za kugonana, zomwe zimathandiza kupanga kukayikira komanso chisangalalo. Ndapeza kuti pa nthawi yapakati, anthu amakonda kupereka malangizo osafunsidwa ndi mawu anzeru. Ngati simukudziwa ngati muli ndi mtsikana kapena mnyamata, zidzathetsa nkhani zambiri zimene anthu amakugulitsani zokhudza “sewero lokhala ndi atsikana” kapena “kupsinjika maganizo kokhala ndi anyamata.” . Kumachotsanso chisamaliro chanu chaumwini pakukonzekera kukhala “mayi wamwana” kapena “mayi wamwana” ndi malingaliro onse ndi tsankho zimene zimatsagana nako; m’malo mwake, mungakonzekere kukhala mayi wabwino koposa amene mungakhale.
Ndife okondwa kudikira kachiwiri. Mimba iyi, tinaganizanso kuti tisadziwe kugonana kwa mwanayo. Timamuuza Lucy kuti adzakhala ndi mchimwene wake wamng’ono kapena mlongo wamng’ono, ndipo tidzadziŵa m’miyezi yoŵerengeka chabe. Ndipo monga banja, tikukonzekera zodabwitsa zina zazikulu!
